where do i begin with this one...
the thing with humans is that for some weird and odd reason it seems that MOST people just cant stand to see others succeed and better yet they are not only waiting for them to fail, they are assisting this process where possible!
have you noticed the older you get the harder it is to make friends. do you know why? its because women are bitches! there! i said it!
it's the honest truth. you think you trust someone then BAM! its like you've been hit in the face with a flying saucer. so more recently i tried this whole...trusting people thing and i thought it was going well. i was learning from the relationship (or so i thought) and i had someone who was giving me sound advice (or so i thought ) but here's the thing with humans in the western world. we don't want anyone to do better than we're doing. so me and this 'friend' of mine was all chummy chummy happy go lucky woop-dy friggin do! then just when i was seeming to be successful...
BAM!
that damn flying saucer!!
the claws came out...
'don't trust them as far as you can throw them' (and shes a big girl so i cant throw her very far)
do ya know what it is? jealousy and intimidation
but what people like this don't understand is that some-else's success takes NOTHING from your own.
which brings me on to the topic of friendship...
the people i call my friends now have been with me for years and years and i trust them with anything and everything (FYI there's only about 4 people i can say this about). but why is it we stop being able to make friends at an older age?
i think its harder to meet friends as an adult for a number of reasons:
1) most people have already identified their friendship circle and so they are more reserved with new people.
2)women are bitches (see exhibit A above)
3) there is a weird sense of envy among people.people generally want people NOT to do any better than them.
4) there is no drama left to share. i think this is the main factor. me and my friends have had our fair share of drama and we have been through all of each others ups and downs together and that's probably what has made us stronger. maybe as we get older our drama just isn't as hard to deal with or even half as exciting so maybe we can't live through enough with new friends in order to build a strong relationship. its like when you tell someone a secret...its a bond that ties you two together and its unique to only the people that share the bond. or perhaps going through all the things you have with you're current friends restores a sense of security and trust. you know if anything goes wrong you're friends will be there to make it all better, just like they have always done.
so to my real friends i love you and always stay the way you have always been <3
and to the bitches of the world...
FYI envy's an ugly trait and don't forget karma is a bigger bitch then you are
xoxo
