women and men can not be friends!

when i was younger my mum always said to me 'Dunya boys and girls can't be friends' and like everything she used to say IT WAS TRUE

OK realistically ladies think about it...every 'friendship' you've had with a male has always end it up in one way, either you end up developing feelings for the man and if you haven't then hes defiantly into you and you don't even know it (this is the point you realize)

and for you ladies that say its fine for your boyfriends to have female friends i don't know who your kidding! we all know your pissed about it too! i mean seriously? some other women is gonna be hugging my man? i'm sorry i must have mug written on my forehead. and i'm not an annoying girlfriend i'm just being honest because there are two types of friendships.
The 'acquaintances': these relationships are acceptable there mainly hi and bye and conversations in public.
The 'friend': these are not as acceptable in my opinion when your in a relationship, its meeting up, long and late night phone calls. i mean maybe its me, maybe i'm still living in 1968 but why on earth would another female who isn't a relative be talking to my boyfriend at ridiculous hours of the night?

but it does happen and the best way to deal with it in my opinion is not to give your partner an ultimatum straight away wait for about a year into your relationship then encourage him to spend more time with you or doing other things rather then see the 'friend', hopefully by doing this they might become distant and you will look totally innocent. i know some people might think it to be wrong to break up a friendship but that women will be fine!! find some new friends and move on for goodness sake! OK, so if this doesn't work sit down and say 'look, i know shes your friend but it makes me feel uncomfortable, its not because i don't trust you (which you don't) it just that i want to be the only women you spend time with i hope you understand' that should do the trick

this is my own opinion so if anyone is offended...well maybe you should find some female friends

and to the ladies who needed that push..do your thing and good luck

xxx